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Lately, my girlfriend's been complaining that I don't call her enough. But I text message her all day long. Is she onto something? Or should I send her a final "c u l8r"?

ANSWER:

Though texting has its time and place (such as the pithy heads-up that you’re running five minutes late), it should be viewed as a supplement to -- not a replacement for -- live communication. No matter how fast and furious you are on your keypad, it’s only natural that your sweetie pie longs to hear your voice. Show her you’re way smarter than your cell’s T9 prediction and practice picking up your phone rather than just pecking at it.


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Thomas P. Farley

Thomas P. Farley is an etiquette expert and speaker based in New York. He has shared guidance on modern manners with CNN, The New York Times, USA Today, the “Today” show and myriad other news outlets around the country.

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