How Much Wooing Is Too Much?
By Elizabeth Narins
Whether it's professing love at first sight, supplying her with gifts or orchestrating a midnight mariachi band outside her window, some guys will say or do anything to woo the girl they want. But when do grand words and gestures cross into crazy-land?
We ask the Men’s Life Today Girl Panel™ to give their verdict on real tales of wooing, as in which ones are sweet… and which borderline psychotic. Take notes.
The MLT Girl Panel™’s Real Tales of Wooing
“A guy in high school once stole a picture of me as a little kid from my house, had it printed on a T-shirt, and wore it to school.”
Our panelist says:“Now that is creepy. But I’d laugh if a guy brought me a cheesy T-shirt! Don’t be afraid to surprise her with something silly, especially if it has to do with an inside joke between the two of you.” -- Veronica, 24
“I was talking to this guy I liked on the phone when he told me to go outside to check out the moon that he was looking at from his dorm window hundreds of kilometers away. When I got outside, he was there to greet me.”
“A guy I was dating (not so seriously) got me real diamond earrings for my birthday.”
“I was on my way home from a family vacation when the guy I was dating snuck into my family’s house mid-blizzard to turn on the heat so we’d be warm when we got home.”
“After keeping score of our scrabble game on the back of my business card, my date kept the card and used the address on it to send flowers to my office the next week.”
“A kid I met online one year took me out to dinner once. Four days later, he had called me, left a voicemail and texted me three times. I responded to say I wasn’t interested in him. Later that summer, he texted me again to offer me an invitation to a club I like and another chance to go out with him.”
“A guy I’d gone out with only once before offered to cook me dinner at his apartment.”
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Elizabeth Narins is the group editor of Men’s Life Today and Style and Tech for Men at Studio One Networks. The former YourTango.com Love Buzz blogger once received a bushel of apples on a third date (and thought it was sweet). Follow her @Ejnarins.
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